Reasons for failure in first sexual intercourse and how to deal with a wife's frigidity.
> 119. **What are the reasons for failure in first sexual intercourse?**
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After the relatives and friends who came to offer their congratulations and celebrations have left, the "bridal chamber" will be quiet and peaceful.
In an atmosphere of happiness, tranquility, and mystery, the groom was captivated by the bride's tender and loving gaze.
Her graceful and charming appearance deeply attracted and captivated me, evoking an unprecedented desire for closeness.
Sexual desire arises spontaneously. However, the first sexual encounter is not always successful.
Even if the penis can be successfully inserted into the vagina, sexual harmony and satisfaction are not guaranteed.
The reasons for this failure are roughly as follows:
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(1) Lack of preparation before intercourse: Because women's sexual response is later than men's.
> Dullness, coupled with the fact that women are naturally reserved and shy, especially the first time they have sex with a man's genitals.
During contact, if the groom is eager or even violent in releasing his sexual desire, it will inevitably lead to...
> Failure of sexual intercourse. For example, taking more preparatory steps to arouse the bride's libido before intercourse.
Foreplaying actions such as hugging, touching, and kissing can arouse the bride's sexual desire before...
Sexual intercourse is necessary for both partners to achieve psychological and physiological satisfaction.
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(2) Lack of understanding of the bride's reproductive organs: The female vagina is a...
Why do penises sometimes fail to penetrate even with well-developed, elastic muscles?
What about the vagina? It turns out that the tightness of the vaginal opening is affected by the hymen and the muscles at the vaginal opening.
Due to the influence of the IUD, the hymen is broken during the first sexual intercourse with penile insertion, and in addition...
The tense contractions of the vaginal opening make penile insertion difficult. This difficulty increases with the number of sexual intercourse sessions.
The increase in the number of lumps causes the muscle rings to expand and stretch to varying degrees, resulting in vaginal laxity.
In addition, after a woman experiences sexual desire, the vestibular glands in the vulva secrete more fluid, and the vaginal opening...
> Lubrication, coupled with genital engorgement causing significant vaginal fluid secretion, and cervical elevation.
The vagina expands to two-thirds of its inner length, and the vaginal cavity lengthens by one-quarter. This is conducive to successful penile insertion.
> This facilitates vaginal insertion. Without understanding these basic principles, rushing into a rough and unprepared procedure...
During intercourse, the vagina does not swell or dilate, and there is no lubrication at the vaginal opening or inside the vagina.
This can cause two problems: firstly, the penis may experience difficulty penile insertion into the vagina; secondly, the woman's pain may exacerbate the tightness of the vagina.
Emotional distress can even lead to vaginal spasms, causing intercourse to fail. Forced penetration can also...
It can cause tearing or severe bleeding in the perineum and vagina of women.
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(3) Excessive physical fatigue: Newlyweds often experience a great deal of physical exertion before marriage.
The preparations were exhausting, and on the wedding day itself, there was a hectic rush of greeting and seeing off guests. Evenings were...
Some friends play pranks on the newlyweds. Therefore, the bride and groom in the bridal chamber are already exhausted.
It's distressing; a low mental state or anxiety, coupled with a lack of sexual knowledge, can exacerbate this.
It is difficult to achieve harmony and satisfaction in sexual life.
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(4) Reproductive organ malformations: imperforate hymen and vaginal septum in women, etc.
If the penis cannot be inserted into the vagina due to malfunction of the genitals, surgical treatment should be sought at a hospital.
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> 120. What to do if your wife has low libido?
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Sexual intercourse is an activity in which a couple experiences heightened sexual desire and mutual satisfaction. Sometimes...
The husband's passionate advances were met with coldness from his wife; even when they reluctantly engaged in sexual intercourse, it ended in...
In the end, it all ended badly. What exactly happened?
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It turns out the wife had frigidity, which means she lost interest in sex.
> Interest, and even indifference or disgust. Human sexual response is influenced by thought processes.
> Various negative emotions such as inhibition, self-blame, anxiety, and fear, which are controlled by the body, can all be...
> Through the cerebral cortex, the sexual center and the hypothalamus-pituitary-gonadal axis are affected.
This can affect and inhibit the occurrence of orgasm. The cause of this is generally due to...
Two aspects: ① The patient has certain underlying medical conditions, such as ovarian insufficiency or kidney problems.
> Dysfunction of endocrine glands such as the adrenal cortex and pituitary gland. ② Caused by inhibition, fear, etc.
> This is caused by psychological factors such as emotional distress and disharmony in sexual life. Generally speaking, women experience...
Sexual pleasure and orgasm occur more slowly in women than in women. If the man cannot adapt to this physiological difference in women...
> These characteristics, over time, can lead to sexual dissatisfaction, and in some cases even cause problems during intercourse.
Symptoms include abdominal tension, pelvic muscle spasms, and vaginal spasms. This is indicative of frigidity.
The result of this is also the cause or aggravation of frigidity.
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According to medical research and analysis, the vast majority of female frigidity is psychological.
This is due to psychological factors. Therefore, the first step is to let go of the heavy burden you are carrying.
Build confidence. Extensive domestic and international research shows that female sexual frigidity increases with age at marriage.
As the number of children increases and decreases year by year, the sex life between couples will become more harmonious. Secondly, cooperation...
> To improve the relationship between husband and wife. Because a marriage without love or with a strained relationship will not...
> Enjoy the pleasures of sex. In the family, the wife is not an appendage of the husband, but only...
Only by showing more care and consideration for your wife can you help her gradually forget her unfortunate past. You must not...
She can express her dissatisfaction verbally. You can frequently accompany her for walks, trips, and movies.
Help her with housework, offer encouragement, and continuously provide her with emotional support.
> Rational comfort. When disagreements arise in life, one should seek common ground while reserving differences.
A tolerant and forgiving attitude can alleviate and resolve conflicts. Third, it is necessary to...
Close cooperation between both partners is essential, and pre-coital preparation should be more thorough, waiting until the wife is ready.
Having intercourse only when sexual desire is aroused can also help in overcoming frigidity.
If you temporarily do not wish to have sex due to physiological or psychological factors, do not do so solely to satisfy your own desires.
Forcing one's wife to have sex without respecting her wishes will cause her to...
> They have become more averse to and disgusted with sex.
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> 121. **What are the forms of expressing love?**
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Those loving and cheerful couples will find different ways to show their affection for each other.
> With tenderness. Like a gentle caress, a knowing kiss, a passionate embrace, tenderness.
A loving gaze, a tender smile, and so on. Indeed, it can deepen love and add joy.
It brings fun, shares happiness, relieves fatigue, and creates a warm and harmonious atmosphere for the family.
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Some people are not used to kissing and hugging, especially couples who have been married for a long time.
> It seems like that's only for young people. Actually, waking up in the morning feeling refreshed and invigorated, and...
A kiss can be delightful, offering new sensations and strengthening the bond between two people.
> Injecting new vitality into the relationship. Every day after get off work, when the husband sees his wife busy with housework,
Taking the initiative to give a kiss has a wonderful effect; it's like a breath of spring.
The wind will soothe the wife's fatigue after a long day and bring warmth to the family.
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If a wife feels wronged, her husband's magnanimity can soothe her resentment.
A sweet kiss from her husband when his wife comes home will make her savor the moment for a long time.
> Happiness. And the wife's lingering affection and kind words of advice as her husband departs for work...
A warm embrace will weave together his thoughts of longing for family.
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Sexual intimacy between spouses is not merely a response to physical stimulation, but also encompasses...
A shared sense of interests and psychological connection-and it is precisely this tender behavior that...
It plays a subtle role in coordinating marital life. A family's greatest value lies in harmony and peace.
Harmony and concord require continuous effort from both husband and wife to create and promote.
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Learn to express your feelings, and you will gain a deeper and newer love!