How to treat a pregnant wife, prenatal care, and male friends.
> 148. **How to treat your pregnant wife**
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Due to a series of endocrine changes during pregnancy, women experience many psychological and emotional changes.
Physiological changes have led them to pay less attention to the opposite sex and lose interest in their husbands sexually.
> Reduced sexual function and decreased sexual adaptability. On the other hand, pregnancy can cause them to develop facial blemishes.
> The current changes in appearance, such as butterfly-shaped pigmentation and paleness, and loose abdominal fat, make them
> It's not just verbal, but a deep-seated feeling that you've become "ugly." At this point, doing...
The husband should provide strong psychological support and comfort to his wife, which can help the pregnant woman.
The internal environment of the fetus is relatively stable, which is conducive to fetal development. At the same time, there is sufficient...
Pregnant women who receive psychological support experience milder and earlier-ending morning sickness; while those who do not...
Pregnant women who receive adequate psychological support may experience vomiting due to adverse psychological factors.
It is relatively heavy; it also disappears relatively late.
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In addition, pregnant women are prone to mood swings and unpredictable changes, sometimes getting angry and irritable.
Anger, sometimes tears and sorrow; some young husbands often feel they have unspeakable suffering; some...
He might even argue rudely with his wife, causing adverse consequences. Regarding pica in pregnant women...
For example, cravings for sour or spicy foods should be satisfied as much as possible, as long as they are not extremely harmful.
To protect fetal development, sexual intercourse should be avoided during the first three months of pregnancy.
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The most important time to care for a pregnant wife is in the early stages of pregnancy.
Providing meticulous and considerate care to one's wife during pregnancy can significantly reduce the risk of serious complications in late pregnancy.
> This condition increases family stability and is beneficial for fetal development and future upbringing.
Numerous facts demonstrate that the success or failure of children's education is related to the rationality of pregnancy planning and the timing of childbirth.
Whether a pregnant woman receives scientific care during pregnancy is related to her overall health.
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> 149. **How to treat your wife before childbirth**
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When a wife is about to give birth, she needs her husband's company even more. So, what can a husband do?
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(1) Recalculate the due date to see if the original calculation was accurate.
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(2) Help the wife tidy up the clothes for both mother and child, such as the newborn's clothes and diapers.
> Cloth, maternity underwear, sanitary pads, toilet paper, etc. used after childbirth.
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(3) Arrange transportation for your wife to the hospital in advance, in case of any emergency.
Upon noticing signs of labor, he promptly took his wife to the hospital.
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(4) Show concern and consideration for your wife emotionally, because even during a normal delivery,
For the mother, labor is a process of both joy and pain. It's inevitable that a wife will experience various emotions before giving birth.
The husband should patiently guide and comfort the wife, addressing any fears or anxieties. Ideally, this should be done around the due date.
In the period leading up to the due date, I helped my wife acquire some scientific knowledge about childbirth, so she would have a clear understanding of the process.
Counting can help alleviate fear. Some expectant mothers worry about the sex of their baby during childbirth.
She was deeply worried because her in-laws and husband criticized her for not meeting his expectations. On this issue...
Husbands should respect science; they love both boys and girls, and should proactively take care of their health first.
The work of people together relieves the mother's mental burden, allowing her to welcome the new mother with a joyful and happy mood.
> To welcome the birth of new life.
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> 150. How to protect your wife during childbirth
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There's a saying: "Men are more vulnerable before childbirth, women are more vulnerable after childbirth." This means that women are more susceptible to complications around the time of childbirth.
Suffering from certain acute illnesses can be a dangerous juncture. While medical conditions are now much better, although...
We must continue to "brave the dangers and overcome obstacles" as before, but we must not let our guard down, especially husbands.
Learn some hygiene knowledge about caring for pregnant and postpartum women, and take good care of your wife before and after childbirth.
> Protection is extremely important.
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For expectant mothers, their husbands are the most trusted people. Therefore, before delivery, the husband can...
To help his wife relieve her worries and fears, and to prevent her from suffering from mental stress.
High stress levels can lead to increased blood pressure, edema, and proteinuria. Simultaneously, labor...
> The pregnant woman's bowel movements, underwear washing, genital cleaning and wiping, breast massage, etc., all
> The husband's assistance is needed. During childbirth, the husband should stay by the delivery bedside, providing support and assistance to his wife.
Wiping away sweat, stroking, comforting, persuading, and guiding can prevent energy depletion caused by shouting and agitation.
Physical exhaustion can lead to weak uterine contractions, thus affecting the progress of labor. When the uterus contracts intensely and causes pain...
When in pain, the mother is willing to hold her husband's hand tightly, hold her breath, and push; while the husband's comfort...
> Comfort and encouragement can give a wife a sense of security, and the husband can also actively help massage her abdomen.
The abdominal wall increases abdominal pressure and is well protected to prevent the mother from falling out of bed due to uterine contractions, pain, or excessive exertion.
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Women often experience lower abdominal pain within 1-2 days after delivery, and sometimes...
The presence of a low-grade fever makes careful nursing and care from the husband even more crucial. Firstly, psychological support is essential.
Offer comfort to your wife and keep her in a good mood. Regarding diet, regardless of...
The husband should consider the necessary dietary supplements before and after childbirth.
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Young husbands should break free from societal prejudices and learn more about nursing.
Provide your wife with proper hygiene knowledge before and after childbirth, and offer her meticulous care and consideration.
We are delighted and happy to welcome the arrival of your "little angel".
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> 151. How to deal with your wife's male friends.
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Is it permissible for married couples to have relationships with other people of the opposite sex? It should be said...
Yes, it's possible. However, in real life, some people are not used to normal interactions between men and women.
Regarding relationships, some people view interactions between men and women as "improper" behavior. In fact, relationships between men and women...
Besides sexual relationships, there are also social relationships such as colleagues, partners, and friends. Therefore,
Supporting your partner's social activities and allowing them to have friends of the opposite sex is a true manifestation of love.
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In today's era, with gender equality and increasing interaction and contact between people...
In addition to their own work and study positions, they also visit dance halls, sports fields, and playgrounds.
And various types of study classes, libraries, night schools, etc., all provide people with free access to...
Contact and interaction facilitated people's desire to increase knowledge, explore issues, and seek common goals.
> Engagement and social interaction are indispensable tools. Especially in today's information age, people are required to...
Only by forming networks and cooperating with each other can people adapt to the rapid development of society and benefit from it.
The development of human intelligence and creativity. Therefore, normal social interaction is a necessity for life and society.
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Some people believe that having friends of the opposite sex after marriage is infidelity and a serious offense.
> This is an immoral act. People who hold this view are influenced by feudal ideology, especially...
Some husbands, in particular, become extremely jealous and make unwarranted accusations against their wives' male friends.
This is incorrect. Making friends is just friendship, not the same as love. Although some people
> Crossing the boundaries of friendship in making friends is a different matter altogether. Therefore, wife
A spouse, whether before or after marriage, can have friends of the opposite sex.
Establishing a pure friendship is perfectly acceptable; as husband or wife, there's no need to be consumed by jealousy over it.
To disregard the facts, harbor excessive suspicion, and pursue the matter relentlessly. Otherwise, it will only dilute or damage the situation.
It can damage the relationship between husband and wife, and even cause unimaginable consequences. This should be noted.
Yes, in interactions with friends of the opposite sex, one should always adhere to high moral standards.
Always use reason to control your emotions and clearly distinguish between friendship and love.
At the same time, pay attention to your communication style and try to avoid arousing suspicion in your partner. This is especially important between spouses.
Mutual understanding and trust are essential, along with support for each other's interactions with the opposite sex. Of course, this kind of interaction...
It must be based on the premise of pure friendship.
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> 152. How to deal with a jealous wife.
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As society develops, interpersonal communication becomes increasingly necessary.
In real life, some wives always feel a pang of jealousy when their husbands interact with other women.
A slippery move could disrupt the peaceful family atmosphere. These wives always hope...
She hoped her husband would uphold the traditional moral principle of "men and women should not touch each other," and that she would not tolerate him interacting with women of the opposite sex.
He becomes extremely jealous during sexual conversations or interactions, even resorting to tantrums, arguments, and verbal abuse against the woman.
The husband was also extremely embarrassed. Having a wife like this is certainly a headache, but since he had already encountered...
Now that we've reached the top, how should we properly address this issue?
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(1) Enhance understanding and trust between husband and wife: Trust is the cornerstone of love, and
Understanding is the prerequisite for trust. Only with genuine mutual understanding and trust between husband and wife can...
This can prevent suspicion from arising. A husband should be faithful to his wife and unwavering in his love.
You must never do anything behind your wife's back that would betray her. This will gradually diminish her...
> The doubts in the child's heart. The husband can invite his wife along on Sundays or when going out to visit friends.
Okay, this will give the other person a sense of self-respect and security. Sometimes I get off work late, but I can ask them to come in advance.
Call your wife or send her a message; if a female colleague visits or you meet her on the way, note...
> Intend to introduce your wife to him, and at the same time, introduce your wife to him, so that your wife feels that you are interested in him.
Her understanding, respect, and trust.
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(2) Reason with her and appeal to her emotions: Actively help your wife broaden her horizons and establish...
Establish a correct view of love and eradicate feudalistic ideas. Explain the dangers of jealousy to your wife.
Oh dear, never engage in a head-on argument, and certainly don't do the opposite-that is, the more you fear...
The more I interact with women, the more deliberately I approach them, the more it provokes my wife's rebellion.
> Psychological factors can lead to making things worse. When a wife's male colleague or classmate comes to visit, she should be warm and welcoming.
Your hospitality fully demonstrates your trust in your wife.
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(3) Correct understanding: A wife's jealousy does indeed bring some suffering to her husband.
He was annoyed, but his wife truly and wholeheartedly loved him and was afraid of losing him.
As a husband, you cannot avoid your wife in social situations, especially when interacting with other men.
Being generous, upright, and honest will win your wife's understanding and support, and her jealousy will naturally disappear.