A newlywed man's rapid ejaculation is not necessarily premature ejaculation; the influence of the family's microclimate on libido.
**132.** **Can premature ejaculation in a newlywed man be considered premature ejaculation?**
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Many men have this experience: on their wedding night, due to a lack of intimacy between husband and wife...
Regarding this, ejaculation is usually faster during the first sexual encounter, but after living together for a while...
> During this time, ejaculation will be slower. Also, some separated couples, due to a long period without sexual activity, will experience slower ejaculation.
> When they suddenly met, ejaculation was faster than normal, but it improved after living together for a while.
Can this phenomenon be considered premature ejaculation? It is generally believed that premature ejaculation is not a sign of premature ejaculation, especially during the honeymoon phase or when separated from one's spouse.
Premature ejaculation is a normal phenomenon. There are three main reasons for this:
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(1) The problem is excessive sexual arousal: because of the courtship and intimacy during the premarital stage.
Whether it's the brain's "command center" for sexual activity or the sexual organs, they are often in a highly active state.
A state of sexual arousal inevitably leads to the ejaculation center also being in a state of sexual arousal, which...
The requirement for sexual stimulation decreases, that is, the "threshold" of sexual stimulation is lowered. At the same time,
For a newlywed man, the first time he has sexual intercourse with his wife, this...
Given that sexual stimulation is both sudden and intense, it is not surprising that ejaculation occurs relatively quickly.
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(2) Stimulation from semen accumulation: Unmarried men experience semen production due to the reproductive organs...
When the amount of fluid reaches a certain level, it will be discharged as nocturnal emission. This applies to newlywed men during their first sexual intercourse.
Beforehand, a considerable amount of semen has accumulated in the sexual organs, which can create a feeling of fullness.
Sexual stimulation, especially during sexual activity, can lead to premature ejaculation.
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(3) It is because sexual function has not yet been fully developed: This does not refer to sexual function.
It doesn't refer to problems, but rather to the turning point where sexual function meets sexual intercourse.
In the initial stage, they may not fully adapt; various aspects of neural and endocrine activity still require further adaptation.
If not fully resolved, premature ejaculation will occur in the initial stage, and will gradually worsen later.
Once you adapt and get used to it, things will return to normal.
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Having understood the underlying principles, even if premature ejaculation occurs during the honeymoon phase, it won't be a problem.
This should cause great concern, otherwise one might mistakenly believe it's a problem with sexual function, leading to psychological and emotional distress.
> Damage to the spirit can indeed induce sexual dysfunction.
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**133.** **Does the family microclimate also relate to libido?**
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Just as vibrant colors and beautiful hair can arouse a man's sexual desire, a sweet word...
A fleeting, warm glance; a tidy room; a...
A comfortable bed can evoke a wealth of imagination, which in turn inspires a sense of wonder.
> Sexual desire. No wonder women always love to dress up and adorn themselves, their skin smooth and fragrant.
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Indeed, human sexual desire possesses a rich imagination. In a harmonious and warm environment...
In the family, the husband and wife are always so loving and inseparable. When you step into this...
At home, even toddlers will shower you with sweet words. (Psychologist)
It has been found that, in addition to attraction to the opposite sex, sexual desire is also driven by psychological factors.
This psychological drive is the prelude to transcending imagination. Just like when you see a woman...
Those pearly white teeth, like the creamy white skin they evoke, make one imagine that smooth, alabaster-like body; otherwise, you'd be too lazy.
They departed in high spirits. In daily life, if the climate is suitable and the environment is elegant, especially...
> Especially if you've been exposed to certain scenes or images in movies or television shows, or in novels
Certain scenarios, such as those involving extreme cold, can arouse your sexual desire. Conversely, extreme cold and humidity can also trigger sexual arousal.
In a noisy environment, with walls having ears, you won't feel any romantic feelings. Similarly, with neighbors...
Disharmony in friendships, arguments with one's spouse, disobedient children, and poor performance of housework.
Things that go smoothly can disrupt your mood, distract you, and increase sexual stimulation.
> The nerves that are sensitive to stimulation are inhibited, which affects the generation of sexual desire.
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A poetic family microclimate, imbued with atmosphere and meaning, endures the passage of time.
> Instead, it will gradually reveal itself, allowing couples to fully savor and experience it, and to savor it forever.
The experiences are endless. May all couples in the world possess their own unique and evocative love stories.
> Home, a home with a pleasant climate.
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> 134. **What to do about sexual dysfunction**
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A lack of coordination in sexual activity can cause distress for couples and even affect their relationship.
> Emotions. Therefore, learning some knowledge about relationships is essential for having a good sex life.
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Generally speaking, men's sexual desire is easily aroused, while women's sexual desire is relatively "dormant".
"Lying low" is not easily aroused; male sexual arousal is relatively quickly concentrated on the sexual organs.
On the one hand, there is a strong desire for sexual activity, while on the other hand, female sexual arousal is more widespread and not...
There is an immediate need for sexual genital contact. Furthermore, after ejaculation, a man's libido quickly returns to normal.
The effects of vaginal arousal subside quickly, while a woman's sexual desire lasts for a longer period. Therefore, every couple...
Both partners should understand this common sense and give full consideration to each other's characteristics, especially husbands.
> One cannot only think of oneself; one must learn to be considerate and caring towards one's wife. The wife should also...
> One should not always be in a passive state; one should actively strive for initiative. Of course, harmonious sexual desire is also important.
> The activity requires a period of exploration and practice, and each couple will gradually develop their own sexual activity patterns.
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Secondly, the differences between husband and wife are influenced by age, physical condition, way of thinking, personality traits, and fatigue.
The level of labor and environmental climate can influence sexual awareness and sexual response.
> No. For example, when one partner is tired or unwell, their libido may be lower than usual.
The chances are lower; if the other party requests intercourse at this time, they are likely to be met with a cold response.
It's best to exercise a little restraint. Forcing your partner to comply will negatively impact both of you during sex.
This will not provide sufficient satisfaction, and over time, it will cause the other person to develop aversion, leading to...
> Negative consequences such as sexual apathy. It is particularly important to emphasize here that sexual relations between spouses...
It is both an enjoyment and a contribution. Unless there is a special reason, when the other party...
> When someone makes a sexual request, they should be met with understanding and cooperation. A happy marriage views sex as...
A key to a harmonious marital relationship is that they will always be there for each other whenever possible.
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Harmonious sexual relations can enhance marital bliss and also benefit studies and work.
Both marriage and career can benefit each other. Therefore, couples should frequently communicate their feelings and support each other.
Understanding and tacit cooperation will ensure happiness stays with you forever.